Marriage - Divorce

What is my responsibility because i know that marriage is ordained of god ?
Elder Russell M. Nelson Let us consider actions that would strengthen a marriage.
To appreciate... Look for the good in each other and sincerely pay compliments to one another.
communicate- couples need private time to observe, to talk, and really listen to each other. They need to cooperate- helping each other as equal partners.
Contemplate- frequent participation in regular family scripture study nourish a marriage and strengthen faith within a family

So what has the world come to its so easy these days to get married and then turn around and get divorced i have seen to many people heading and going down that road i think it is sad i dont think people know what marriage is thats why i am thankful for the gospel and how it explains marriage. I dont know who has seen fireproof but it is a wonderful movie after me and brandon saw it we took a look at our marriage and realized that we needed to fix somethings and we have we are starting out little but in the end i know that i wont be going down the raod that some of my friends and family have it hurts to know that people sometimes just give up or they dont want the bad with the good.

Elder oaks said in the marriage relationship they ought to look first to one another, as they due getting married not first to there parents, siblings, and friends, but in solving all of there problems, they should look first to one another, because the unity between them under the loving authority of a heavenly father will get them over the inevitable problem in there marriage.
Elder holland said Ive heard president Hinckley say that selfishness may be the single biggest challenge in a marriage .

Febuary Birthdays

Well we celebrated two birthdays this month ethan who turned 3 on the 19 of feb. he had a birthday party the theme was batman yeah exciting i made the cake it was fun i enjoy doing that for birthdays so there were lots of people there he had fun and loved his gifts he got alot of cool toys and some new cloths he got a bubble machine whch he loves the dog it funny when you get that a going he is like ethan and chase running around popping them it funny. I cant believe that he is three at least he is out of the terrible twos for his mom. Well then we celebrated my brothers birthday he turned 20 on the 25th of feb and we had dinner and cake for him he got some movies and paint balls which we have found out that beans the dog is afraid of them so he runs and hids when he sees them it funny.

Great way to start off ur week

So i got home from work on sunday around nine and so i parked my car in its spot and that was the last time i saw it casue came in and got ready for bed and went to bed well at six am my dad is waking me up because someone between the time that i parked my car and six am someone taged (spray painted my car) my car they went down the whole street that i live on and tagged the cars that were on it so what a day it was called the police and reported but thanks to my husband we got it off we use orange clean it took it off so he was out there at 7am after the cops showed scrubbing away it took it off so we were lucky i am glad it worked so i am hoping that nothing else will happen i hope that the rest of the week gose good well so thats how i started my week what a week.

Valentines Day

Well i had to work on valentines day but i got off early at eight so when i got home there was a table set up with dinner it was so cute my hubby did this in the time that i told him i was getting off early i thought it was so sweet and cute well we ate and talked and had a good time it was nice to have such a surprise when i got home i wasent excepting it. My hubby got me tulips witch are my favorite flowers and some chocolate and he wrote me a poem it was so romatic. I dont know what i did to get such a loving and sweet husband. I love him very much.

How do you change

How do you stop letting someone who walks all over you and ur use to it but you have other people who are noticing it and are worried about it.Then theres well you hae noticed but you dont know how to stop it with out being rude, and ur worried about the others involved like her kids that you take care of them better then she does, and you have noticed that when her boyfriend is around she ignores her kids, what kind of a mother does that. But you know you have to do something but dont know how to approach it, and ur scared that if you change how she walks all over you then she wont want to be friends. well if theres any helping advice you can give please do.

Temple Lights

Well we usually go to the temple lights on christmas but this year it was rainy so we went on Jan 1st i look forward to this time of the year for the temple lights i love to walk the grounds and see all the lights and visit the natvity scences. This year we went with brenna and ed my husbands sister and brother in law it was fun cause me brenna and ed took the light reel to meet my husband cause he works in tempe then headed to temple lights we had fun walking and taking pictures of the temple grounds all lit up for the holidays. We cant wait till next year for the lights.

Holidays

Well it seems like christmas flew by, We had a lot to be thankful for this holiday season, We want to thank the Hansens for an amazing christmas eve party that happens every year and it a party we cant miss we look forward to it every year. We want to thank my parents for a lovely dinner and for brenna and ed spending christmas with us it was a blast. Well for new years after i work i came home and brought in the new years with my hubby it was a good new year.