Marriage - Divorce

What is my responsibility because i know that marriage is ordained of god ?
Elder Russell M. Nelson Let us consider actions that would strengthen a marriage.
To appreciate... Look for the good in each other and sincerely pay compliments to one another.
communicate- couples need private time to observe, to talk, and really listen to each other. They need to cooperate- helping each other as equal partners.
Contemplate- frequent participation in regular family scripture study nourish a marriage and strengthen faith within a family

So what has the world come to its so easy these days to get married and then turn around and get divorced i have seen to many people heading and going down that road i think it is sad i dont think people know what marriage is thats why i am thankful for the gospel and how it explains marriage. I dont know who has seen fireproof but it is a wonderful movie after me and brandon saw it we took a look at our marriage and realized that we needed to fix somethings and we have we are starting out little but in the end i know that i wont be going down the raod that some of my friends and family have it hurts to know that people sometimes just give up or they dont want the bad with the good.

Elder oaks said in the marriage relationship they ought to look first to one another, as they due getting married not first to there parents, siblings, and friends, but in solving all of there problems, they should look first to one another, because the unity between them under the loving authority of a heavenly father will get them over the inevitable problem in there marriage.
Elder holland said Ive heard president Hinckley say that selfishness may be the single biggest challenge in a marriage .